In the ancient Greek society, marriage was regarded as an auspicious relationship. Marriage was very important to carry family chain.
In the Greek culture, every respectable woman became a wife if she could. In marriage, there was hardly room for choice. Destiny played an important role in solemnizing marriage.
Woman had no alternate than marriage. The sacred wedding rituals were interwoven by the various ceremonies. These ceremonies had ritual meaning and overlapping rites.
There is great evidence for these formalities, both literary and artistic, which helps to provide a complete account of Greek customs.
Offerings, dedications and sacrifices were made by the bride and the groom. Marriage consisted of a private contract where woman was transferred to her husband. Marriage consisted of transfer and transformation.
Transformation means actually giving the responsibility of the woman. Many things pointed towards her transformation like cutting of hair and offering them to virgin deities. Presenting the hair locks to the goddess often signifies the attainment of womanhood.
Greek society stresses upon the marriage of a girl at the age of fourteen. Boys are found eligible at the age of thirty after they have served military force. Girls are obliged to marry where their father wants.
Various types of rituals are followed in the marriage ceremony. Both the bride and groom take bath in the holy spring. On the wedding day, girl is dressed in the traditional attire. She is taken in veil to the banquet hall. She is accompanied by her friends and relatives.
Groom attires in the best outfit reaches the bride’s home with a procession of friends, relatives and family members. Drums are played and crackers are burst to ward away evil spirit spirits. Music and dance plays a major role in the festivities. Bride and the groom wear a crown or garland to mark the occasion.
The actual transfer of the bride from father to groom takes place at night after the bridal banquet.
After the great feast the procession in a chariot takes place from the home of the bride to the home of the groom. Bride stands in the cart as her husband mounts it in preparation for their journey. Families follow the chariot by foot bearing gifts. Bride’s mother carries the torch in the journey at night to light the way.
Bride eats an apple as a part of the incorporation rites which demonstrates her new union with her husband. Fruits and nuts are showered on the couple which acts as agents of fertility and prosperity.
One day the after the marriage, an outdoor procession of people is held.
It is called the Epaulia. It is an outdoor procession of people who brings gifts. Gifts generally include vases filled with greenery, baskets, pots, furniture, jewelry and combs.
Athenian marriage is relationship between a man and a woman who had the primary goal of producing children and maintaining the identity of the social and political community.
In ancient Sparta, the ceremony was very simple. After a tussle, to prove his superior strength, the groom would toss his bride over his shoulder and carried her off.
Slaves in the ancient Greek culture cannot marry because marriage was considered only for the privileged class.
Any children which were born from their masters were disposed off because the slaves have no right to rear children
Rafi Michael
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Chris K says:
Was there gay marriage in ancient Greece?
Homosexuality was commonly practiced in ancient Greece. Was same-sex marriage practiced as well?
Just Wondering says:
No. Sex was for pleasure. Marriage was for getting ahead in life and making connections.
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Baronet says:
No, there was no gay marriage in ancient greek, the homosexual relationship in ancient greece was strictly between man and boys, once they grow up, it would cease, it has something to do with greco roman concept of power relation.
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Little Miss Epic says:
That's a really good question, haha.
As far as I know, there were no gay marriages in Greece, although men did often have relationships similar to marriage with other men. Ancient Rome did have gay marriage however.
There's more information about it at:
http://www.pinke.biz/articles/67/Historical-Homosexuality-Gay-Marriage-in-Ancient-Times/
ChiffonBreath says:
No.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_same-sex_unions
Hayl says:
no. men would have male "lovers" but it was usually between a younger guy and and older one. the men would marry women to prodeuce offspring but act like their spouse was the male. homosexual men in ancient greece such as alexander the great always had many male lovers but a wife to produce heirs or to raise them for battle if they were in sparta. achilles and patroclus were lovers but they never got married. there was no homosexual marriage in ancient greece.
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class on ancient greece, actually talked on this subject today